One of the best aspects of having people you trust in your life, is the ability to ask for advice. I have happily taken on more projects but that has also created a boundary problem. I say ‘yes’ too often OR I don’t erect fences around the ‘yes’ or my own time. This leaves me […]

Have you ever discovered something about yourself that you would have sworn wasn’t true? Or has someone ever shown you something about yourself that you denied until the evidence was clear? This happened to me two weeks ago and I, quite frankly, still haven’t decided how I feel about it. Am I a “bad” friend […]

Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others. Brene Brown Recently, I received a message from a someone that …. PISSED me off HURT my feelings Made me feel GUILTY Stirred up RESENTMENT My emotions swirled in that muck all evening. I showed my husband […]